You are loved.

Is it just me, or is "I love you" one of the most terrifying phrases to most people in today's society? It seems like it's one of the hardest things for people to say (other than, of course, "I'm sorry", but that's for another topic), so they just don't say it. Or, they take their god damn time getting the guts to say it.

In my opinion, "I love you" shouldn't be scary. It should be something easy and something people should say often. It brings smiles and joy and happiness to the world. It shouldn't be kept from us! It should be shared with everyone!!

In my experience, every boyfriend I've ever had has been terrified to say "I love you". They've waited so long to say it (actually, like six months into the relationship) that I've said it first. And if I haven't actually -said- it, then I've hinted at it and they already know. Is this a bad thing? If you look at both sides of the story, yes and no. No, because then they know exactly how you feel about them. Yes, because then you've defeated the purpose. If your "significant other" is prideful, or vice versa, then they want to be the one to say it first, if at all. If you've said it first, then it gives them leeway to say it; it makes it easier for them. Okay, okay. Maybe that's not such a bad thing. But, they need to stop being cowards, and just say the damn words! It's not that hard.

Some people will argue: you have to say it at the right time. Of course you do! But, isn't there plenty of opportunities that would have been -perfect- to say it? Yes. There were so many you can't count. But, what if you say it, and the other person doesn't say it back? So what???? If they don't say it back, it just means that they either don't feel the same way or they're not ready to say it! I know, it might be a little embarrassing, but you can deal with that. If they know how you feel about them, then it shouldn't be embarrassing. You shouldn't be ashamed to feel something for someone, especially if it's genuine love!!

Another argument. And this is one that I've just recently discovered:

You know exactly how you feel about someone within a few weeks of knowing them.

Okay, a lot of people might argue that this is wrong, too. But I've felt it. Sometimes, it takes longer than others. But, within four to six weeks, you know whether you absolutely hate someone, or you could possibly love them for the rest of your life. Is this not true? Come on, you have to agree with me here.

All I'm saying is: don't be afraid to say it. No one should be afraid to say something so amazing. It shouldn't be something that makes the other person run away. It shouldn't be something that should be hidden from anyone. It is life's joy, the best little moments, that are spent with those that love you - and those that you love. We shouldn't smother feelings that are good for everyone's health.

You are loved.
Everyone is loved.
You just have to go out and say it.
And maybe they'll say it back, too.